Keep your contact information updated so the rest of the family can find you.
Here's how this works. Select yourself from the dropdown list. Choose a User Name for yourself. Type in your email address. Click "Create Account." If the email address you enter matches the email address in the database, then your account will be immediately activated and an email will be sent to that address providing a password for the new account. (A bonus for those of you who let me know their addresses!) Otherwise, when you sign up, manual confirmation will be required before the email is sent. Sorry for any inconvenience, but it keeps emails, addresses, & phone numbers away from prying eyes.